Another thought
I purchased the insert from Obert - have not received it yet, but I believe it is the best way to do the snail mount.
For the dogbone, I'm looking at urethane bushings (ala skateboard wheels). Various sizes can be sourced on the internet or e-bay. The only way I can see to install a hard bushing would be to slice of one side of the dogbone. I don't think that would be a problem; I could even spotweld a heavy washer to the inner bushing, but I don't think it would be necessary. Another idea would be to drill through the center of the dogbone into the urethane and insert a screw or roll pin to make sure the urethane doesn't slide.
My transmission mount is for the 5-speed and has the tab for the exhaust mount. This mount is substantially higher cost than the mount without the tab. I believe the two mounts are interchangeable, and since my exhaust has been modified I don't need the tab.
I plan to fill the gaps on both the transmission mount and snail mount with 3M Windowseal to stiffen them up and keep grease out.
I appreciate advance thoughts, and I'll post my results when I get there.
-- Mike