thank you all sincerely
I know that even now there are still some here who are scratching or shaking their heads and not quite thinking this is that big a deal or not seeing my motivations or why I would be taking it so deadly serious. I have personally seen organizations similar to our own
self-destruct (for real) over the course of time as a
direct result of their "off topics".
I am telling you guys, "mark my words", there are 2 possible futures for Xweb, one where DF and NFC users
can communicate directly with one another (if not as "fellow users" then I'd hope
at least as "camps"?) and "COEXIST" in their own and each others spaces, *WITHOUT* getting siloed-in, stuck, having some kind of psychological "wall", alienating or attacking one another, evolving in conflicting directions or hiding the crap in back so to speak... and the other, where those things do happen and the whole site suffers for it,
or worse...
For near ten years I have "tried and tried" to keep this single issue (DF-vs-OT/NFC) from ever falling too far off the "Xweb Self Analysis Refresh Radar" and --as
ceaselessly irritating as I know some here seem to find it-- I believe deeply it IS a "potential life or death" imperative that self-and-other awareness be continually practiced by all users here, lest the danger will always exist that Xweb's sections may one day, some year, grow "too far apart" (culturally?) for the whole website to not just eventually turn on itself or otherwise give out under the strain
(And I do not just mean by talking to say "yeah 'we' know 'they' dont like 'our' posts, 'we' dont like 'theirs' either", but rather to
actually communicate with each other and genuinely seek to understand/resolve the "whys" in such cases, to whatever greatest extent possible)
I have seen other websites die or be divided or blown to bits over exactly this kind of "us and them" sections "not speaking" stuff.
IT IS NO JOKE - IT CAN BE A TICKING TIME BOMB! Just please
NEVER let it happen to this website and the great people (yourselves!) who occupy it.
"CHECK yourselves before you wreck YOURSELVES!" Thats all I've ever been trying to ask you each/all to "go do" with these endless comment cycles, course corrections, self-checks etc, and if you each/all can see to it that is done -OUT IN THE OPEN- with some regularity here once I am gone then I will sleep well in my retirement.
"PS", I overheard upstream a comment "I guess we'll get whatever Mac and the Mods want"... not quite so, thats entirely why I am asking
you here! I am just the "messenger" here to bang the drum and am not necessarily going to be part of the actual "final calls" on these things now.
You need to be telling the mods -
and each other- what
YOU think and want. Then the mods may need to make some judgment call based from that, that strives to encompass as much of what folks express as they are realistically able to make happen, but ultimately,
you are "the decider" for how it all (all of Xweb) will "end up" one day.
SO, Choose wisely Peace!