Your headlights are draining too much from...
your wire harness.
This is because of degradation in the connections.
You need a headlight relay harness to remove the load of your headlights from your car's harness.
You should also insure you have a 4Ga ground wire from your battery to the chassis. (a $5 item)
Did you run another 10Ga wire from your + Battery to your fuse box? (to the large plastic union inside the car near the fuse box) Another $5 item.
All necessary to help with the problem(s) that you describe.
your wire harness.
This is because of degradation in the connections.
You need a headlight relay harness to remove the load of your headlights from your car's harness.
You should also insure you have a 4Ga ground wire from your battery to the chassis. (a $5 item)
Did you run another 10Ga wire from your + Battery to your fuse box? (to the large plastic union inside the car near the fuse box) Another $5 item.
All necessary to help with the problem(s) that you describe.