You are getting close ; )
From personal experience;
Dating; Do whatever the guy wants. Kay and I went backpacking every month.
Engaged; Do most of what the guy wants until the wedding to very close. Last backpacking trip was the day we got engaged. Vacations are now the beach not the mountains.
Married 1-5 years; Share hobbies with the husband and help with his hobbies. Kay helped me buy and work on my 72 Fiat 124 spider. Never went camping again.
Married 6-10 years; Likes the Fiat and buys an Alfa spider of her own. No longer helps with the repairs. Ocean City is no longer good enough. Vacations are now Sanibel Island in FL.
Married 11-15 years; Sells Alfa spider, but lets me buy more toy cars. No longer goes for drives in the Fiat or drives the Fiat unless required. Vacations now include Caribbean islands because they have better beaches. This is an improvement, the beaches are topless. Mountains what mountains?
Married 16-20 years; Your Fiat is a death trap. No child of mine will ride in a 25 year old Fiat without airbags. Hawaii is a long flight from the east coast. The beaches are crowded and the women wear tops. I want to back to the Caribbean.
Married 21-25 years; Kids now borrow your Fiats and do damage. The wife says who cares they are Fiats. The only time my wife rides in my X1/9 is when my daughter is driving. Europe is now the place for vacations. Beaches are topless again, but the language is not English.
Married 26-28 years; Wife makes you trim the herd of cars you have collected over the years. Kids wreck every car they drive. Conflicting work schedules makes home life better. Vacations now are separate when possible. I go with the guys to play golf, She goes to FL with the girls. Ride in a convertible? You must be joking.
Future; ???? It will be interesting.:help: